hsifeng: (Beat Down)

You know, sometimes you read something and you can’t decide if you should laugh or cry…

…or possibly shoot the first marketing executive you run across.

This article is crazy making. However, I am glad I read it, because when I stand in front of the judge after mowing down the entire Abercrombie and Fitch product development team with an AK-47 I will have a clear and reasonable defense at my disposal.

And sure, we can go after the parents who buy these things for their daughters next. That sounds like a completely justifiable plan to me.


hsifeng: (WWSCD?)

…but refusing to back down when you are being treated like crap generally ensures that those missiles get aimed at a more passive target in the future.

More on the concept that accepting bad treatment without responce is BS here.

Fav quote, “I once spent an hour in religion class being told that the pain I felt when someone insulted me was actually my fault, because I chose to get angry and be hurt. That's when I figured out that if you write "TURN THE OTHER CHEEK" on a piece of magical Paper of Uncomfortable Truths and hold it in front of a mirror, it reads "BLAME THE VICTIM."”

Now, where do I get the goo-gone to unstick all these damn Nerf corners from the rough edges of the world?
hsifeng: (Schadenfreude)

Many thanks to Shani (via Ta-Nehisi Coates' normal blog on The Atlantic) for the introduction to Holla Back DC and Holla Back NY.

I think that all women have experienced street harassment and that most would agree that this particular for of “expressing one’s appreciation” is not appreciated. This goes well beyond Strange Danger and into realms of female objectification and degradation that can be truly mind blowing. Who honestly things it does women any favors to shout sexual comments at them in public, photograph their body parts (either on the sly or in the open) or ‘accidently’ touch them in an intimate manner?

*mind boggles*

And yet, I understand why folks are uncomfortable with taking a picture of harassers and posting them on the interwebz (along with an account of their behavior); because nice girls don’t tell/complain/make a fuss.

What a crock of shit that value system is.

But there it is.

*points at self* “Not a nice girl.”

Thankfully, I can honestly say that this sort of thing hasn’t happened to me in the recent past, but I can tell you I know it will happen again. Just not when. Now to remember to tell off the person who does it off, clearly and with emphasis.


hsifeng: (Beat Down)

I just got a phone call from an old co-worker: Apparently my former admin aide was jumped and got the crap beaten out of him the other night. F is one of the sweetest, quietest, nicest guys I know and knowing that some *(insert the most horrible expletive you can imagine)* did this to him and have basically gotten away with it  - they dumped him on the street where a homeless man helped him to the closest open establishment – makes me want to hit something with a baseball bat.


But I would rather be constructive – since it is more likely to help F.

So: Does anyone know of any community groups that might be able to assist him with some medical bills? F has the cheap Kaiser Perm plan at the old job site and there is a $3,000 deductible to pay before his medical expenses are likely to be covered.


F tends to come across as effeminate when in conversation, but he rarely speaks up in crowds. That plus the fact that we live in a city full of Rush Limbaugh devotees makes me think this could potentially be a hate crime.


Thoughts? Links? Groups to contact?

 

EDIT:

I just want to say "Thank You" to everyone who has pitched in with ideas and information. I *heart* my friends!

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