Many thanks to Shani (via
Ta-Nehisi Coates' normal blog on The Atlantic) for the introduction to
Holla Back DC and
Holla Back NY.
I think that all women have experienced street harassment and that most would agree that this particular for of “expressing one’s appreciation” is not appreciated. This goes well beyond Strange Danger and into realms of female objectification and degradation that can be truly mind blowing. Who honestly things it does women any favors to shout sexual comments at them in public, photograph their body parts (either on the sly or in the open) or ‘accidently’ touch them in an intimate manner?
*mind boggles*
And yet, I understand why folks are uncomfortable with taking a picture of harassers and posting them on the interwebz (along with an account of their behavior); because nice girls don’t tell/complain/make a fuss.
What a crock of shit that value system is.
But there it is.
*points at self* “Not a nice girl.”
Thankfully, I can honestly say that this sort of thing hasn’t happened to me in the recent past, but I can tell you I know it will happen again. Just not when. Now to remember to tell off the person who does it off, clearly and with emphasis.